If you were sitting around with friends eating, and someone asked you how much you make, what would you say? Ramit Sethi. My friend, a perpetual Manhattan bachelor, just got into a relationship with a sweet girl. If someone had asked me those questions years ago, I would have clammed up and gotten super embarrassed. As I wrote in my book, there are certain areas of our lives — surprising areas — that we HATE sharing:. They were more willing to give their name, age, and even details of their sex life than providing the amount of their credit card debt. Their sex lives?